So Let Me Figure This Out...

* Anti-trans radfems [1] are hopeful that trans men can vibrate themselves into becoming dcmc womyn [2]. For example, in Hot Hypothalami, Pinko Lesbo advises:

Don't reinforce the feedback loop in your brain. Get a vibrator. Practice having orgasms with new thoughts. Are the old fantasies creeping in? Turn the vibrator off. Don't reinforce old patterns with orgasm. Can't come? It won't kill you not to--try again tomorrow. Practice with new, positive fantasies, and eventually you will be rewarded with a new sexual response. We've all been colonized, but we can drive the invader off.

* And are scared that cis men are vibrating themselves into becoming trans womyn. I know that doesn't fit my experiences and doesn't fit many trans womyn's experiences.

* And are concerned about anti-female elements in some trans people's fantasies,

* But think it's easier for someone to change their whole gender than to substitute pro-female elements for any anti-female ones?

[1] as opposed to other-branches-of-fems.

[2] don't call me cis