You're missing the point. Radical feminists don't accept post op transwomen as women. It's in the comments. It's not about the penis although I totally get a lesbian not appreciating it in a partner....totally. That's why the whole penis thing is a derail. It's not really about the penis if you don't accept post op women as women. Whether you accept a post op transwoman as a sexual partner or not is between you and her. I AM post op and I get called a guy rapist as well. The whole article including the pregnancy bit (because if there was any dialog between trans and red fems at all you would know that pre op transwomen are sterile within 6 months of starting hormones, mostly don't ejaculate and have difficulty even getting an erection)is shockingly ignorant and transphobic and that's before you get to the comments. The sad part is most transwomen I know would be totally repelled by any thought of coercion in the bedroom or anywhere else. All I think is really being asked (although the language used was appalling) is that we not be dimissed as sexual partners just because of a label. If it's a deal breaker in bed, it's a deal breaker, anyone would get that.