I got the implication from your comments and especially from Femonade's comments that you don't think womon-loving trans womyn are lesbians, and you don't think other womon-loving non-trans womyn who are involved with trans womyn are lesbians.

I don't think either side should be pressuring womon-loving womyn to be attracted to trans womyn or to never be attracted to trans womyn. Some will be, some won't be.